I was inspired to google the terms giving yourself grace and found this interesting essay.
What inspired me to search on these particular terms? I was motivated to do this because I had observed this topic as a theme in many conversations and in many sessions with clients these past few weeks. The conversations may not have included the exact word "grace", but what I have observed is the expression of the desire of having more grace with(in) ourselves and/or of the feelings of being pushed upon and away from our sense of grace or the feelings of being compelled to push against someone or something, that caused a feeling of gracelessness in ourselves.
Does this resonate with you? If so, I invite you to read on:
The writer of this article I shared above offers the following quote in in her essay:
think of "grace giving as a form of equanimity. That concept is defined by an openness, softness, and love, qualities that allow emotions to come and go, "without push or pull," says Sola."
I invite you to consider that what the writer is talking about, whether she knows it or not, are some of the key aspects of somatics.
Giving yourself permission to Yield, to soften into the support of your experience of your body breathing and being supported by gravity in this moment, is a foundational resource necessary for giving yourself grace and also for the process of safely opening somatically.
For those who don't know what I mean by Yield, it is one of the five fundamental Actions. These five fundamental Actions (Yield/Push, Reach/Grasp/Pull) are the universal energetic "pathways to life and...movement" (from Susan Aposhyan, for another perspective on this click here).
Yield is resting in contact, allowing oneself to actively rest in connection with what supports you in the present moment. It is this capacity, to actively Yield and allow the support of the Earth and our breath, that underlies our capacity to Push.
And this, dear ones, IS the act of equanimity: to be able to fully and easily Yield into what is supporting you in this moment and to allow that support to communicate to your nervous system that you are whole and safe and secure and to allow yourself, if you choose, to Push yourself upward or to take a stand or to take an action WITHOUT losing your sense of yourSelf as a supported, fully alive and present human being. This is equanimity.
The act of Grace.
Consider practicing living grace as a verb. Invite yourself to allow yourself to honor your whole Self - spiritbodymind. To honor your experience of Presence, right here, right now It is all awareness, it is just awareness, it is part of awareness of what is the truth of this exact moment - and give yourself permission to not be Pushed or Pulled into the past, the present, the story, the rules or the judgement.
The embodiment of Grace.
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